2018 Big Brother Nigeria housemates “BBNaija”, Vanessa Williams, aka Vandora has revealed that before her boyfriend have s*x with her, He must ask for permission regardless of the fact that they are in a relationship or have been intimate before.
Recall while she was still in Big Brother House, She disclosed that her ex-boyfriend raped her repeatedly by sleeping with her without her consent while she was asleep
In an interview she had recently, she said:
“When I made that comment about my ex in the house, rape had just been ‘redefined’ and based on what we were told, I believed that what my former partner did could be termed as rape.
It was actually a long time ago that I dated the person in question and the relationship had ended as of the time I made that comment. As a matter of fact, I’ve been in my present relationship for over five years. However, at that time, I didn’t really know the gravity of what I said.
“But it doesn’t matter that we were in a relationship; what the guy did was actually rape. If anybody is taking you against your will, it is rape, whether you’re in a relationship or not.
My partner has to seek permission before we get intimate because I may not want to at that time. It doesn’t count even if we had been intimate before then. Rape is actually a big deal, and so far sex is not consensual, it is wrong.”
However, The reality TV star who just celebrated her birthday recently was shower with love words as her present boyfriend took to his Instagram page to celebrate her. In a post he made on IG, Vandora is his best friend and one of the smartest persons he knows and loves how she’s humble about it.
Read Instagram post below:
Love aside, this woman by my side has been my best best-friend. I remember when we got talking, we went from talking for 1 minute to 1 hour and we could do 24 hours if given the chance. You’re one of the smartest persons I know (for some reason, you don’t show it off enough ���).
Back to the love part, you have a heart of gold. I thought I knew what love was before I met you but you helped redefine and upgrade it. I’ve never felt this much love and it still seems unreal.
We’ve had our ups and downs which is normal but we find a way back. I strive to be the best man I can be to you because you deserve nothing less. @vandora_vandora With love from cruz